Personal Terrain

Like the earth’s geography, terrains and many environments with various seasons, temperatures and weather patterns, I too am filled with so many emotional environments, moods, textures and terrains : happy, sorrow, glad, fear, joy, concern, etc.

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Being a Positive Change

Don’t break a bird’s wings and then tell it to fly.
Don’t break a heart and then tell it to love.
Don’t break a soul and then tell it to be happy.
Don’t see the worst in a person and expect them to see the best in you.
Don’t judge people and expect them to stand by your side.
Don’t play with fire and expect to stay perfectly safe.
Life is about giving and taking.
You cannot expect to give bad and receive good.
You cannot expect to give good and receive bad.
You cannot expect to give hate and receive love.
So if you’re willing to see positive change in your life, you must be willing to be that change itself. — Najwa Zebian

 

I thought this was so perfect. As a therapist, I sit and listen to the stories of the broken parts and hearts of an individual’s life. I am like a midwife who waits and receives. At first, I hold that which is received. And then, with the one whom I companion, I help craft a mosaic, a beautiful piece of art from bits of broken pieces. At first glance, it might not appear beautiful, but with sunlight the pieces shine, and glow, and transform the broken ordinary into a glimmering shinning extraordinary.

Charlie Cavalconte, M.Div., LADC
Therapist, Wedding Celebrants, Ceremony Script Writers, Ritualist and Consultants
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Refuse to fall down

Refuse to fall down.
If you cannot refuse to fall down,
refuse to stay down.
If you cannot refuse to stay down,
lift your heart toward heaven,
and like a hungry beggar,
ask that it be filled,
and it will be filled.
You may be pushed down.
You may be kept from rising.
But no one can keep you
from lifting your heart
toward heaven–
only you.
It is in the middle of misery
that so much becomes clear.
The one who says nothing good
came of this,
is not yet listening.

~ Clarissa Pinkola Estes

Light and Darkness

Audrey, a friend of ours who owns  The Left Bank Gallery in Wellfleet, Massachusetts, paired Jim Holland’s image  “Twilight Farmhouse”  with Martin Luther King, Jr’s quote to beautfully celebrate the day.

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; 
only light can do that.”
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Jim painting is for sale at The Left Bank Gallery.

Four from Rumi

These beautiful timeless pieces speak for themselves.

Before you speak,
let your words pass through three gates.
At the first gate, ask yourself:
Is it True?
At the second ask:
Is it necessary?
At the third gate ask:
Is it kind?
~RUMI

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“Christian, Jew, Muslim, shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river,
each has a secret way of being with the mystery,
unique and not to be judged.”
~RUMI

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The minute I heard my first love story
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind I was.

Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along.
~RUMI, copyright by Coleman Barks

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What was in that candle’s light
that opened and consumed me so quickly?

Come back, my friend! The form of our love
is not a created form.
Nothing can help me but that beauty.

There was a dawn I remember
when my soul heard something
from your soul. I drank water
from your spring and felt
the current take me.
“Water From Your Spring”
~RUMI, copyright by Coleman Barks

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Enjoy,
Charlie and Cheryl Cavalconte
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Miracles

The following two quote came to me about a day or so apart, I think they are totally fantastic!

“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.”
~Albert Einstein

“I am realistic – I expect miracles.”
~Wayne Dyer

 

 

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Charlie and Cheryl Cavalconte
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